Sunday, September 13, 2020

A Hearfelt Message To The Class of 2020

 

Dear Class of 2020,

 

You navigated through a tumultuous year.  You had your senior year cut short.  No prom, no traditional graduations, maybe none at all.  Your sports seasons were put on hold, championships never played for.   No bonding one last time on your senior class trip.  Never a chance to walk the halls of your high school for those last few days and say goodbye and thank you to your special teachers.  Or maybe even the janitor that treated you with kindness for all of those years.  (That was my case.  Our janitor was one of the kindest people at our school, he was like my school grandfather.)  Of course, there is email, going back sometime next year, talking to someone on Zoom or some other online web conferencing form, but nothing takes the place of real-life experience. And it is also very important to share some remaining times with your friends.  In my senior year, my best friend and I would talk and dream about our futures.  The future will come soon enough, you need every last minute to be young, silly, and free.   You do not need to be home, isolated, not knowing when you could ever go out again.  It was bad, and do not let anyone else tell you otherwise.  Some of you have started college.  Some online, others virtually.  Others may have put their plans on hold until this pandemic is not a factor in our safety.  Some of you may have lost a loved one or friend to COVID-19.  This disease has taken a lot from all of us, in many different ways, throughout the world.

But when I think about you, the class of 2020, I am reminded of how you came into this world.  Generally speaking, the class of each year starts kindergarten if you are born in around mid-September.  That means that you were born sometime between the middle of September of 2001 and September of 2002.  September 2001 was one of the most devastating days our country has ever seen.  We just had a day of remembrance on Friday (this is being posted on September 13.)  I will never forget that day in our history and the sheer horror of it.  My generation had never seen anything like that before.  My parents’ generation had the assassination of JFK, and World War II saw the destruction at Pearl Harbor.  But this all unfolded for all of us to see, and it changed our country forever.  Smoke smoldered for days; the cleanup took a long time.  Some of you came into this world as the smoke smoldered and people were still trying to find out of their loved ones were really safe, lying somewhere in a hospital bed, or never coming home again. It was a time of crisis, fear, and uncertainty.  There were economic downturns, and we never knew what the next day would bring.  Shortly after, there were people sending anthrax through our mail system and trying to kill journalists and politicians.  We never really knew when it was going to end.  The same could be said about our country right now.  We do not know when this pandemic will end.  Our economy is weak, and there is civil unrest.  I wish that you in the class of 2020 could have seen what our country was like at that time.  There were no Democrats or Republicans, just people.  We didn’t fight about whose beliefs were right or wrong, we just needed to take care of our brothers and sisters.  For those first responders at Ground Zero, it did not matter who the person was they were trying to save.  They were just trying to save them.  Right now, our citizens are turning on each other.  At very least, some will not respect others rights to safety.  Others are literally shooting and killing their own country members. 

Class of 2020, you came into this world at one of our worst crisis times, and you graduated and became an adult in another one of our worst crisis times.  That makes you very unique.  In fact, I do not believe that there is another group of students who were born and entered adulthood at such a crisis time in our country’s history.  But that also makes you very resilient.  You know what it is like to have to improvise and learn to adapt to the absolute worst of circumstances.  You understand that life can change in a few days’ time without warning.  You certainly have learned to create new ways of doing things, particularly learning.  And most importantly, you have learned that it is crucial to keep looking towards the future.  Every one of us have to be reminded of that; I have to remind myself on a daily basis that this will not last forever.  We are all required to look towards the future and plan for it despite what is going on in our daily lives which have been disrupted.  But your class in particular was the first and maybe only class to have to work through some very unusual circumstances and still pursue your education.  You were having to make tough decisions about your safety, trying to determine whether it was safe to go to a campus or not.  And maybe you made the decision that this is not the best year for that to happen.  Whatever it was, you learned that you had to make the best decision for your life at the time.  That is, by definition, being an adult. 

For all of those reasons, you are a very special group of young adults.  I believe that you are a very unique and wonderful group of people who will change the world.  You have been tested even before you entered into the world of adulthood and learned how to deal with some very difficult circumstances.  It taught you how to be a survivor, how to think differently to adapt to your circumstances.  You were forced to be creative in your approach to learning, to try new things, and to have to stick it out despite uncertainty.  Those are all great qualities in leaders.  I for one cannot wait to see what you do and how you rise to the occasion in this world.  You already have. 

I wish all of you, the class of 2020, the very best as you grow into adulthood and throughout the rest of your life.  I have no doubt we are going to be seeing some very amazing things from you.  You are special. 

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